God bless you both. My uncle who is like a father to me is currently fighting Cancer of the Unknown Primary or CUP. He was given 6 months to live in September.
It hit home for me the first time I went with him to a chemo treatment. The patients were all upbeat and my uncle joked as his treatment was administered.
Everyone should spend a day at a chemo clinic. There would be far fewer depressed people since more would be appreciative of their good health.
At the same time, I have witnessed patients who have only the basic coverage NOT prescribed a $100 anti nausea pill, which is extremely vital.
And, I have witnessed patients handing over their own anti-nausea pills to those far less fortunate. There's a whole lot of love in that Chemo room...
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You meet the nicest people in chemo rooms.