Well the cloud in the lining, if one can dare call it that is that they don’t have any children. But he’s such a nice genuine guy and he’s going through all this emotional stuff inching along.
I’m just trying to be supportive. Even with his world being what it is, he says she is “devastated” he’s looking to move ahead alone. Meanwhile she tried to get him out of their home on a verbal separation agreement.
I am walking a delicate line trying to stay out of it. But I told him not to leave his home without a written agreement on their married assets. And then I asked him what he could do if she moved someone in?
My other buddy, well it’s been a couple of years now. I’m glad I was able to help give them some space until they sorted things out. It saved a family and they are doing so much better.
That makes me happy.
At least your friend knew he was in a bad situation. Mine has no clue. But, when I keep hearing “she won’t let me”, I cringe. He thought it a strange thing that it didn’t bother my husband if I chatted with a male friend when he wasn’t home. He called me on it when I accidentally used the word let for something (when in reality my husband would have let me have chickens, he just won’t tend them). :)