My sister and I were asked to be debutantes(not the one in the article) and we turned them down. Nothing against them; it’s just not our cup of tea.
Made my father a very happy man. He saved a lot of money and my mother didn’t really care either.
My wife refused to make her debut, and it made me very angry because I loved the parties. I made my debut for about 10 years, and was it fun!