[seoul62]

A different perspective: I have a dear friend, who is like a sister to me, Bosnian-Muslim: she remembers having to flee for her life because of the civil war there. The people that you grew up with, lived in your neighborhood, went to school with, had dinner at their house and played with are now shooting at you. Where is the sanity or reasoning in that./Just Asking - seoul62.......

[Mel70]

Many Serbs and Croats would have told you the exact same thing.
However, the situation in Kosovo was different. What happened in Bosnia came as a surprise to many people indeed. What happened in Kosovo surprised no one.