Lot of people don't get this but if the person doesn't want to change then the program won't work. I guess its alot like AA, unless you want to stop drinking, AA isn't going to help you.
Not being a class struggle bigot or anything, but I tell a lot of well off families that their sons who have lived privileged, elite lives would really benefit from being in the military, getting up close and personal with lower classes, seeing past peoples superficial appearances. That their good education would help the military and that years later they would look back at their service as one of the best parts of their lives.
Unfortunately, I usually get blank, are you crazy look.