It all came together for me when I found out that my Borderline Personality ex-wife had two abortions before our marriage. Rightfully she figured that I would not have married her had I known that fact. Unfortunately her bizarre behavior continues as she vacillates between being a professional mistress or a homewrecker.
You're going to heaven, my FRiend, because you've done your time in Hell. OMG. All my sympathy to you.