The way it ought to be:
To any supposed Muslim ally:
“We trust you. And we trust your wife, 3 children, 6 Aunts and 7 Uncles. We also trust your Grandparents and cousins. We trust them and WE KNOW WHERE THEY LIVE just in case we need to reach out to them for any reason. Did we say we trusted you?”
Yes the Keyser Soze rules of problem solving.