I have found gay women to be angry, nasty, and VERY unhappy. I have NEVER met a gay woman I actually liked!
A very good friend of mine, who was a "LUG" (Lesbian Until Graduation) even commented to me in a discussion that she didn't go to "lesbian bars" - because the women were angry and no fun. She hung with the gay guys - cause they were happy & fun.
“In my experience, I have found gay men to be generally happy, fun, kind people. I “like” most of the gay men I’ve met”
Some of that is a false front, and where it isn’t, it doesn’t last forever.
Unlimited promiscuity can make a man pretty giddy for a while, but whether he suffers from same-sex attraction disorder or not, the cold, grey light of dawn eventually casts its pall on decadence.
There is a great deal of violence among male sodomites as well. Women don’t have a monopoly.