My southern grandma was ok, but she didn’t make a fuss over us like my lower-east-side German grandma did. But then she had 19 grandchildren and my other grandma had 2. She also had an awesome family tree.
You have a lot of cousins
My Grandma was german and she wonderful to ALL her grandkids, great grandkids, and the great great grandkids. There were about 30 of us grandkids. We all loved her to pieces. She was the only grandparent I had. The other 3 were gone.