old story his wife is an idiot
Thanks for your input Al. Apparently still not resolved.
Bingo. Still.... If I were on the HOA and KNEW he was deployed, I’d have made every effort to contact the soldier. HOA’s have the choice of pursuing collection thru small claims. Also, I have a hard time believing the soldier had no clue his wife was whacked. This is a tough one.
He should have married better.
Yep! His wife is an idiot. Pull it together woman and share the load with your husband.
1) If you choose to live in a development with HOA **read** the contract before you sign.
2) If you don’t pay your HOA dues then it makes harder on and more expensive for the other owners and they (rightfully) get ticked!
3) Wasn’t there any extended family checking in on this woman and her family?
Nothing in their family history points to her being an idiot.
If you've never had to deal with anyone with clinical depression or disabling anxieties, then let me just say that there are some extremnely serious things you don't know about. May God protect you from such crippling experiences.
Though the homeowner's group has no contractual obligation past a certified mail, the fact that they selectively reached out personally to some but not others invokes a de facto requirement that they treat everyone by the same standard - and they didn't treat her the same as others. They should be countersued for discrimination, to give them an idea that they are not omnipotent. Homeowners groups are, by and large, so evil they make Satan blanch. The rest are just vicious, petty, and as criminal as they can get away with.