[Fundamentally Fair]

Very well. I have a mother and two in-laws. I have had 5 children of my own. I love everyone in my family. I spend time with all of them. It is my pleasure. I don't expect a thing from any of them in return.

I would trade everything that they may have at their time of death for just one more day of life.

[northwinds]

I love my family as well....and I would trade dollars for days as well. That being said, would you be a little surprised/upset/hurt if your father left his entire estate to your ner do well cousin with a drug habit who had never visited him?