As long as homosexual males continue to spread AIDS and kill people they'll really have a difficult time eliciting any sympathy from serious minded people.
I was told by a nurse relative who worked in LA, that it really does boil down to AIDS and insurance. The gay men don’t care who they are marrying, they will continue to have several partners at a time, they are not looking for a monogamous relationship, what they are looking for is a sugar-daddy with insurance that they can use to pay for the very expensive treatments.
She said gay women are different, they are pretty monogamous, and AIDS and insurance is not really their motivation.
I have no substantiated research to back up either of these claims, just passing on one woman’s commentary from her own experience.