I have to ask. My Hubby of 40 years is very verbal about his likes and dislikes. If I pick something he doesn't like I hear "I'm not paying for that".
I haven’t had to do that yet. Would I? Sure I would. She can pick out what she wants but it doesn’t mean I HAVE to like it. It’s just that the decision is hers to make in that area as the decision is mine to make in the other areas.