My roommate was no pervert - she was a red-blooded American girl. But still I was nearly raped one night when I was sexiled and didn’t have the refuge of my room - didn’t matter at all if it was her girlfriend or boyfriend in there.
Either both roommates agree that sex takes precedence over security and studying, or it shouldn’t be happening.
That is creepy; I couldn’t deal with that atmosphere (and fear) at all. Thank God you were OK.
Here in northern NJ they’ve downplayed the crimes on some of our campuses; they’re not in the best areas (Newark, Jersey City), and the campuses aren’t properly fortified. If you wouldn’t walk in these areas at night as a high school senior, you probably shouldn’t walk there as a college freshman.