Sounds like you have led an “interesting” life, mu.
I doubt I had missed the fact that their are gay people who like to show their hindquarters by the time I found my friend (sister of a guy I ran around with in Boy Scouts, etc.) lived across the way from Tony Curtis!
So far the great national debate on this case has skipped right past the dead kid ~ like he was some wilting flower. He was having a hit parade of guys come by his dormitory room for sex ~ and I've seen that before. Some people elsewhere were having hissy fits over possessing him ~ that's always the case ~ and he ended up dead.
To me it's clear as day that he was murdered.