[Goldsborough]

And how long have you been married for?

Twenty years this June. Virginity is overrated and more lies have been told in history over the topic than perhaps any other in human history.

FWIW, I am still driving my completely researched 1996 Subaru Outback and 2001 Jeep Wrangler too. Being completely sure about a big decision saves a lot of grief.

[BenKenobi]

That puts you in the minority then.

“Virginity is overrated”

If your goal is marriage and kids, waiting until you are married is the best way to go. People aren’t cars. You don’t ‘try them out’, unless you want to hurt yourself and a lot of other folks along the way.