Sexual naivete, dissatisfaction, and the rut of total repression is a hell on earth of a person's own making or of one's sexually incompatible partner. Too many people have only too late experienced the let down of bad sexual chemistry founded upon a false premise that "things will work themselves out" ONLY AFTER they've eternally contracted with and bought their pig in a poke--or cheating would never be heard of, especially in the gossip before and after services every weekend.
#1 - Goldsborough presumes that pre-marital satisfaction -- say pre-marital "satisfaction" of a couple in their 20s somehow = lifelong marital "satisfaction"...
(Hmm...I wonder how many couples in their 30s, 40s, 50s, etc. would like to talk to you about that bankrupt notion)
#2 - What are the sexual ailments Goldsborough Ids there:
(a) "Sexual 'naivete'"-- which itself is a thoroughly subjective phrase because it can range from...
...a woman "failing" to major in Hollywood porn 101 or Nevada Brothels 201...
...to a woman who simply dislikes treating sexuality as an "artform" [in the movie, the 10 Commandments, the character playing Moses' wife makes a statement about Jewish wives who aren't like Egyptian wives that treat set as an art...]
(b) "Sexual dissatisfaction"
(c) "rut of total repression"
(d) "bad sexual chemistry"
Seems to me Goldsborough is saying there that if a person grades their spouse as having a...
..."D" in chemistry...
...an audit "no grade" in repression...
...a "D" or "F" in that moving tartet of "satisfaction"
...or a "repeat the grade level" in naivete'...
...why who is really then to "blame" for "cheating" (as he said "or cheating would never be heard of".
Perhaps you should open up a Cheating Licensing School where you could issue licences to cheaters. Why it'd probably alleviate some of the guilt.
I'd suggest for you pre-license courses like "Partner Blame 101"
(I think if you talked to enough marriage counselors they'd tell you the majority of their cases involves a double problem -- and the problem extends well beyond the bedroom...)