Don’t know if you are even married or have children? But, if so , good chance you are going to be horrified.
One can raise children to the highest of your standards. But when they get out into the real world with peer pressure, many, many youngsters do get/make pregnant before marriage.
Despite your best efforts your children are going to disappoint you from time to time. The best you can hope for is that they don't break your heart.
Well...so far it’s two of the five kids who were knocked up/knocked someone up out of wedlock. The libs love this sort of thing. It’s unfortunate.