Everybody is full of advice today.
Well, here's some more: Don't post on a web forum if you don't want people to comment on what you say.
The Freepers who have said you would have told the Apostle Paul to take a flying leap have it right. Moses was a murderer, too. These women have had a Damascus Road or burning bush experience of their own and are doing the right thing in response to it. If you think you are doing God's work by denigrating them for it, you have a serious problem you need to resolve with God.
Think of the most shameful sin you have ever committed, or one you now commit that you are ashamed of. Now imagine that you left your job in the worst economy in daceades rather than do that immoral filth over and over, and someone claiming to represent God told you that you were just the same filthy loser you were before you gave up your career to honor God and deserved no help or regard. Would you think that person had a clue? Or would you think they were self-righteous and unbiblical?