Get it through your head that trying to bully or scare people into supporting your candidate only serves to make you and your candidate look desperate and weak. It doesn't convince anybody - people don't want weak candidates whose supporters resort to scare tactics.
Before you claim that these tactics work, take a look at the Ron Paul supporters. If these tactics work, then their boy Paul would have made it to the White House.
Nobody is trying to bully or scare you. We are just trying ease you out of your pipe dreams and back to the real world. Herman Cain is not going to win the Republican nomination. We face a binary choice — Romney or Perry. No purpose is served by pretending otherwise. Any effort expended on behalf of no hopers (Cain, Bachmann, Gingrich, Santorum etc.) is, at best, wasted.
Delusions can be sweet and we all understand how hard it can be to give them up. But you have to. It's as simple as that.