Simple - no evidence, no crime.
If sex took place, there is evidence; pretty simple, huh?
If the girl gets up, cleans up and then goes back to bed; it would certainly appear it was consentual, wouldn’t it? As is; you are more worried about your precious child, that you would freely imprison anyone whom she would accuse.
What happens when your daugher realizes that she can get revenge for you grounding her, simply by saying “Daddy touched me”? She can now freely extort anything her little 8-18 yr old heart desires, simply by threatening to make the statement. Whether it’s true or not, is really inconsequential, isn’t it? You will get you day in court, just like him. It may mean you don’t have a job anymore, and will lose your house and marriage - but that is the amount of power you have willingly and aggressively ceded to your child. Makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside, doesn’t it?
Or, do different rules apply when you are involved?
And if it's between a grown man and a 14 year old,THAT'S statutory rape....consensual or not!
Or can't you process that?
What happens when your daugher realizes that she can get revenge for you grounding her, simply by saying “Daddy touched me”?
Just because someone else may have failed as a father and now has an uncontrollable animal in their home doesn't mean we ALL raised our daughters to be little pysco-sl*ts.