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Thanks for posting this---deserves a repeat:

Sexual predators are extremely cunning and manipulative and take great pleasure and pride in the fact that they project normalcy to others and are able to easily dupe innocent people----but they are entirely dedicated to the pursuit of victims. Once they act on their deviant desires, the quest for victims becoomes an obsession.

The saddest stories (so many more ashamed to speak out) come from single mothers with young children, who are wined and dined by predators lusting after their youngsters.

The mothers are later devastated------b/c when kids try to tell the mom what's happening, the mother refuses to believe "that nice guy" she's married to would do something so heinous.

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The wages of "moral relativity"----and the non-judgemental culture spawned by these evil entities:

...........people who became aware of Sandusky’s crimes did not press for prosecution, clearly underlines that the “consenting adults” rationalization of evilness and immorality has succeeded in desensitizing people to these heinous, immoral acts.....they no longer grasp the fact that child rape is wrong. We are just beginning to reap the whirlwind of the 1960’s so-called "sexual revolution"............

The mothers are later devastated------b/c when kids try to tell the mom what's happening, the mother refuses to believe "that nice guy" she's married to would do something so heinous.

It goes both ways, unfortunately. The mother and the new boyfriend both have a lot of emotional investment in their new relationship, like people do in every new relationship, hence, the tendency to not like the idea of "throwing away" what they perceive they have. This is the primary "normal" reason why people stay in bad relationships. It's also minimized in Biblically-based courtship (the norm prior to the 20th century) as opposed to today's "dating". Courtship is by far the most safe, effective and least stressful method of making the decision of who to marry.

The other side of the coin is that often the new mother-boyfriend relationship is a good one that the children either resent or simply want to mess up out of selfishness, wanting to control, thinking they are the "real leader" of the household or jealousy of their parent. So sometimes the accusations by children are false and in those cases, if children successfully fool authorities, the results can be devestating to parent's and children's lives.

As in this case, I believe it's typical for young victims to not report until they are much older, if they ever come to terms with the attack enough to do so. Of course, often they actually can't remember the events because they've blocked them out of their mind and the attack goes unreported.

The wages of "moral relativity"----and the non-judgemental culture spawned by these evil entities:

Some super-scary facts for parents (a word to the wise):

Pedophiles refer to normal heterosexuals as "breeders". They will seek to become a "friend of the family". Busy parents are very trusting, this goes back to simpler times when most everyone in town was sane and anyone who was wacko was either known by everyone to be a wacko or was a stranger. Friends or family who are predators will wait decades for children to be born and reach the desire age. Today, since the "connected community" is fading out in favor of suburbanism where people know very view of the people in their town and church is no longer the social center of society, sexual predators can easily live right amongst us because no one "really knows" anyone else. What they do in the privacy of their own home is their business and not mine, right ? But of course that's been taken too far - now people have zero idea of who they are living around.

Any place there are a lot of children, predators can be hovering about, just "taking in the view". Chuck-e-cheese is a nightmare for this, if you're reasonably safety-conscious, you'll go beserk until you get your kids out of there. Actually, however, every restaurant or store with children in it could have a pedophile roaming about.

The advertising industry is very spooky. Predators will often love to gather up pictures of kids of various ages - and catalogs fit this purpose. Trouble is, apparently those who design the catalogs are aware of the situation. Disgusting but true. There are many more with predatory attitudes who have simply not acted on their desires.