It’s my personal experience. A very real and genuine one. And, you may go to Hell.
It’s the same kind of experience that happens hundreds of times everyday in this country. It’s not molestation. It’s not “the media.” It is however something within people that we can’t explain and thus apply the “deviant” label too as a soft, comfortable, warm excuse to make ourselves feel better about ourselves.
I assume you are an adult. Wise up.