lol...you ain't married hoss nor ever been divorced with that comment
i for one do not consider my money separate from my wife unless she left me
if a woman is your partner and especially is she is baby maker and stay home sort then she is not to be kept some sort of prisoner to the fact that you earn the money...sure everyone has to be responsible but my wife is going to know about big decisions I make and when I send family, friends and yes even women I know/knew...and not intimate with ever ...I am going to go over it with her first. And if perchance it was an old lover who had hit bad times and needed a hand I would FOR DAMN SURE tell her...good lord think of the consequence and trust if you don't...whew....might as well sleep with them as soon as send them cash so long hiding it from wife...the end ain't gonna feel much different
one thing my sent from heaven wife does not have a vote on is hunting expenses for me and the lads...she knows that is my province and respects that...sorta like me and her highlights and retin-a
Excellent posting from a man who absolutely understands what it takes to make a marriage work...and work well.
You are a good man, wardaddy.