I’ve done things without telling my wife and yet, I have never cheated on her...
And we don’t know one thing about the type of relationship they have. I hate the be the one to break it to some idealists here but there are all different sorts of marriages. Some marriages, the spouses have very loosely shared lives. Some marriages, the wife really doesn’t give a rat’s a$$ what the husband does as long as the debit card still works. Maybe that is their deal. We don’t have a clue. All I do know is that every time a marriage is involved, people paint it as Ozzie and Harriet. Strange, since, in reality, I know very few people like that.