Males in California realize that if you’re married for 10 years, and she wants a divorce after having another man’s children while married to you; you WILL pay her alimony for the rest of her life - on TOP of the child support for the children she had while cheating on you when you were married.
10 years = the rest of her life you owe her even if you remarry, she still gets a monthly cut of your income.. UNLESS she gets remarried, and then you’re off the hook. Under 10 years of marriage only reduces the support by half the marriage time. Thus, a male married for 9 years to a cheating woman will owe 4-1/2 years of alimony, plus child support on her illegitimate children she got while cheating on you during her marriage. Why the hell is anyone surprised at this decline in marriage? A single male can knock up multiple married women and never pay a cent in child support. Married males (regardless of gender) without a per-nuptial agreement, are the most financially vulnerable, victimized, and gullible people in society today.
I beg Cher to get this information to her son and save Chaz Bono from the worst financial decision in his life if he is even considering (even heterosexual) marriage. It’s just not worth complete financial destruction.
I dunno reading your whine here I kinda side with her.
I wonder if whether or not hte dowry system, plus class stratified marriages will make a comeback when men get tired of marrying women who dont’ have as much as they do and end up milking them for all their worth, then leaving them to marry the man they really wanted to.
Don’t know if the rest of your “facts” are gibberish as well, but I was married for 15 years and ended alimony after ten. Probably could have shortened the ten if I tried.