You seem familiar with the situation in Israel. I’ve never been able to find out if the Iraeli army accomodates females with much lowered height, weight and physical fitness standards, as they do in the US military. Perhaps you know?
I don’t have any personal knowledge, just did some searching. But the woman from the Center for Military Readiness would likely know, it would be a good organization to contact. She also wrote and IIRC testified in front of Congress why homosexuals should not be in the military. She is one intelligent and principled woman.