If one of my kids was involved in an innocent question and I was summoned to school, everyone involved wouldn’t know which arse hole to use cause I would rip then all a new one...these people are crazy...
I distinctly remember the day our then 5 year old boy/girl twins were telling us about someone they had been playing with, using the child’s name. When we asked who that person was, they both described her as “the one with the brown face.” For them, skin color has always been a descriptive term, no different than hair or eye color.
For the boy in this story NOT to be inquisitive about why someone has a different skin color seems more worrisome than that he did ask.