Posted on 02/24/2012 3:44:35 PM PST by ConservativeStatement
Right now in the most of the developed world, it could be argued, women are considered about as "equal" to men as they have ever been. And yet, countering any "We've come a long way, baby"-type sentiment you might cheer about (intelligence in a woman is now considered by men to be more important than being pleasant and a good housekeeper; France is doing away with the term "mademoiselle"), there are deep, abiding problems that we're still working through. Some, like birth control access, are matters of health and freedom, while others are more "semantic," though no less problematic.
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My brother went to the courthouse in Harrisburg PA where my mothers family was from and lived to search for records but a fire in the 1940s and several floods afterward destroyed many records and his search turned up nothing. We even searched on Ancestry.com and no census records from that time mention a child by that name.
It was so sad that this little girl so long forgotten was buried with no grave maker, no last name and apparently no record or memory of anyone living of who she was.
As this was the last plot, we had my mother buried and the childs small casket reburied on top of her. When we had my mothers name added to the family tombstone, we also had the name Margaret with the approximate year of her birth and date of her burial engraved too.
Ugh! That’s heartbreaking. I’d do exactly like you did and dig and dig to find something/anything on that little girl.
And kudos on reburying her, appropriately.
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My wife was a radio personality when we married. She asked if I minded if she kept her “on air” name. I asked what the name on the check was going to be. As long as it was going into our bank account she could call herself whatever she wanted.
To most of the world she retained her name. To me, and our children...she has mine. I figured that was fair enough.
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