The question was “What is your excuse for government controllers / licensers of marriage imposing gay marriage?
You’re welcome to address it.
It is, after all, directly pertinent to your expressed view that such things would come from a lack of government control, when a quick scan of Google News shows that such things are happening right now BECAUSE OF government control.
Why be so obtuse, you want to eliminate all definitions of marriage, you want to let homosexuals, and Muslims, and weirdos, and cults, and Mormons, and the FLDS, and literally everyone, define it as they wish.