"I'm not very pretty, but I fluke."
Posted on 03/06/2012 5:55:16 AM PST by IbJensen
Thanks to Georgetown law student Sandra Fluke, the sex life of students, and women, has become the new hot topic of conversation. Called upon to testify for the defense of Democratic leaders and their HHS contraception mandate, Fluke, in essence, argued the case that "the health" of women takes precedence over religious liberty.
It seems like an odd pairing: a health mandate focusing on contraceptives for women versus the notions of religious freedom, but these are the two debates brought to the fore in this argument.
To be fair, the bulk of Fluke's testimony made claims for the necessity of contraception for legitimate health concerns, such as endometriosis and ovarian cysts. And also, to be fair, the necessity of contraception being the best treatment for those health issues is debatable.
The coverage of contraception in Catholic institutions for legitimate treatments is a separate conversation, as the church itself has specifications for times when contraception may be necessary treatment and perhaps permissible.
Whether Fluke intended to or not, her testimony has sparked a debate about the sexual health of women, and it's a conversation that's worthy of a closer look.
Most notably, conservative talk radio show host Rush Limbaugh came under fire --and consequently forced to apologize -- for calling Fluke a slut and asking her to upload sex videos. His comments were deplorable and unhelpful, to say the least.
Conversely, other commentators raised concerns about Fluke's testimony that speak to a larger body of voices, which are calling for a higher level of respect for women and their sexual health.
Claiming that contraception coverage was financially crippling to students, like herself, Fluke ended her testimony by saying: "We refuse to pick between a quality education and our health and we resent that, in the 21st Century, anyone thinks it's acceptable to ask us to make that choice simply because we are women."
Fluke claimed the costs of contraception were steep, saying that roughly 40 percent of Georgetown women struggle with $3,000 contraception bills over the course of a three-year law school term. But many quickly debunked her claim, notably the Weekly Standard, who found that Target in DC sells generic birth control pills for $9/month to those who do not have insurance.
Other objections were made, too.
Tina Korbe at HotAir.com had this to say: "Ms. Fluke, I resent that you think women are incapable of controlling themselves, of sacrificing temporary pleasure for the sake of long-term success. You make us sound like animals, slaves to our instincts and able to be used, but we're better than that. We're persons, equal to men in dignity and love."
Whether Fluke was referring to health in terms of students' sex lives is, again, debatable, but since the conversation is open we might as well explore it.
For many women (and men) sexual health is not the freedom to have sex whenever. Rather, sexual health is defined as ordering sex into life in a way that is best for the whole person-both mentally and physically. And it is in such a sex life that true freedom is found.
Where can such a freedom-giving sex be found? In marriage, these women and men claim. And they have scientific data to back up their claim.
The Love And Fidelity Network (LFN), a college outreach program, has a catchy advertising campaign highlighting this data and illuminating this view of sexual health.
"My sexual choices now are making a difference," their ads read, with each one detailing the appeal of research-supported reasons to delay sex until marriage.
Take the pictured one as an example. "I want to experience better mental health than my peers," the poster reads. In the finer print it explains: "Among a number of desirable outcomes, married adults have been shown to report less depression, less anxiety, and lower levels of psychological distress. Studies have also shown that martial stability is negatively associated with one's amount of sexual experience in college and the time prior to marriage."
And another ad: "I want to experience 20 percent higher relationship satisfaction and 15 percent higher sexual quality in my future marriage than my peers." And in the fine print, "The delay of a couples sexual involvement until marriage has been shown to have significantly positive associations with a number of relationship outcomes, including relationship satisfaction and stability, sexual quality, and communication."
These ads are giving voice to a growing movement, because for a growing number of college students, the mentality of hooking up, or even having sex prematurely in relationships, isn't cutting it.
The National Health Statistics recently reported in their 2006-2008 report, virginity among individual's ages 20 to 24 rose from 8 percent for both men and women in 2002 to 12 percent of women and 13 percent of men. Additionally, sociologist Paula England of Stanford has found in her research that nearly a quarter of college seniors are virgins.
Many students are finding that despite pressure from the media and their peers, their romantic lives are missing something. "We feel constant pressure to do things that make us feel unsettled," a class of students told Professor Donna Freitas, Professor of Theology at Boston University, as they schemed to ditch the hook-up approach to relationships for a more holistic dating life.
Sex is powerful, and it's meant to be an incredibly intimate and empowering act. For many college students and unmarried adults, delaying sexual activity is not just saying "no" to sex right now, but rather saying "yes" to a healthier, better sex life later.
For these individuals, health and education are synonymous, but their sexual health in college doesn't require the cost of a monthly pill. Kudos to the Love and Fidelity Network and its students on campuses nationwide for giving voice to this view of healthy sexuality.
Let it go!!! Fluke is an activist. Limbaugh has done nothing that Maher hasn’t. It’s the economy, stupid!
Ms Fluke is a useful idiot who will find herself to be the next Monica Lewinsky. No man wants her, fat and alone. Foolish slut.
“Law students” Gone Wild!
Everyone knows that promiscuity is the way to a fulfilling relationship and lasting happiness.
Maybe if Republicans opened with a laugh-line like that, they could get out of their defensive posture. Mock the opposition. Make them defend the absurd.
Speaking like a sailor;
SNAFU, Systems Normal, All Fluked Up;
She’s a Fluking floozie;
Fluke you, no Fluke YOU;
Fluke is as Fluke does;
Dude, you’re so Fluked;
When Fluke talks Obama listens;
Dude, we’re is so Fluked;
No, America is so Fluked
Women’s health? Promiscuity increases the risk of sexually transmitted diseases.
Yes, stupid, it IS the economy, but it’s a whole lot more.
It’s the degredation of societal norms that follow when a nation is being literally destroyed by the evil ones who are running and ruining our lives. These poor Georgetown students, for example, are fluking their brains out for America and not getting their safety net of baby control pills furnished free. These sluttish youngsters are tomorrows commissars.
It’s as though satan and his evil army of imps have taken over the central socialist government as well as insitutions of lower learning.
"I'm not very pretty, but I fluke."
Yep this event is going to have a “short” half-life.
See this article in the WSJ.
“The Fluke Distraction: The left hasn’t won its war against religious liberty.”
http://online.wsj.com/article/best_of_the_web_today.html
That’s a man, baby!
Naah! This is not about Catholics, this is about the open assault against religious freedom by the Left. It is aimed at ALL Christians, Jews and some other faiths.
This is not about “birth control”. It is about Abortion (murder of the unborn) and about Religious Freedoms granted by God (not man) which were written into the 1st Amendment of the U.S. Constitution.
This will not go away.
FUBO!
She is running cover for an Administration that is shredding the Constitution, most recently the 1st Ammendment’s “free exercise” clause.
NOBODY speaking or writing on this subject, should spend more than 5 seconds transitioning to this fact!
Don’t mention Rush or Fluke, simply cite the fact that this is a protection racket for an anti-Constitutional White House!
I have never understood how abortion has been described as a matter of “women’s health” by the left.
Good point, that if we are concerned about “women’s health”, that we would strongly discourage promiscuous or no strings attached type sex behaviors.
I have never understood how abortion has been described as a matter of “women’s health” by the left.
Good point, that if we are concerned about “women’s health”, that we would strongly discourage promiscuous or no strings attached type sex behaviors.
That seems to be what Ms. Fluke is implying here. Only Fluke believes that using government force to reach into somebody else's wallet is somehow different.
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