“seems he somewhat rejected the love of his grandparents.”
His grandfather seems to also have been a loser. His grandmother was the breadwinner.
I don't feel any pity for oboma...he has looks, education, pampering of his grandparents, with a little perversion thrown in. And he liked it. He made his choices, and so did some of us. And now we ALL will suffer at the mercy of this maniac until we remove him.