What it is, is that they are perverts so they want all of us to be perverts too. That way they don’t feel so perverted.
And that is the basis of why mysery loves company.
'I can't stand the pain, so let me unload some of it on you.'
'Painting this fence is really a lot of fun. Here, grab this brush and join right in.'
'Toke right up. You'll love it!'
'Take a whiff of this. It's better than powdered sugar. Takes your pains away, too.!