“Both the Korean culture and your harsh attitude casts all blame on the women. That’s fundamentally unfair.”
Unfair or not, it is women who get pregnant. So, they have to be personally responsible and not be sluts, due to the consequences.
That being said, those men who get girls pregnant and do not assume responsibilities need to be chastised themselves and locked up. Their irresponsible action causes the society to pay for the bastards.
The solution I see to this problem in any cultural context is:
1. Chastise both females and males to the point that their lives become living hell. They should be made an example out of.
2. Do not pay for any kind of welfare benefits to the slut mothers, so they think before spreading their legs again. (slut-mothers usually give birth annually)
3. Eliminate abortion so that the slut-mothers can’t kill their children.
4. With no abortion option and no welfare benefits, the slut-mothers will have to give up the children up for adoption. The children will have happy homes and the sluts will either have to improve themselves, or go through the process again.
Nice idea, but you've waited until the horse is well out of the barn already. You aren't addressing the male half of the equation and male behavior, just the consequences in the woman's body.
It's funny how people treat female pregnancy as if it's some sort of black box situation where oh, she's knocked up, how in the world did that happen. A man made it happen. Oh, she didn't keep her legs closed. Great, but now how many modern men expect all women of childbearing years to be practicing contraception of one form or another, and to be fully sexually available during "dating" (I guess courtship is dead).
Sounds like a good plan.
My earnest recommendation is that you neither father nor adopt any daughters, nor any children of single mothers. Learn to love with humility, since all of us sin and fall short of the glory of God.