So please share how you deductively reasoned that since I would hold someone responsible for raping my drunk daughter, that I am lacking as a parent, and would naturally approve of my daughter having put herself in a bad situation. I believe your word choice that applies here is "Seesh".
My deductive reasoning?
The very fact that you envisioned your daughter at this type of party, behaving the way this foolish girl did.
What conclusion SHOULD someone come to?