Really? They had the control to sexually molest her and to videotape it. It's appalling that you detach blame from them and blame the victim.
Have a nice, if misguided, day.
“Really? They had the control to sexually molest her and to videotape it. It’s appalling that you detach blame from them and blame the victim.”
Actually they were also impaired in their judgement by booze as well so lets cut the kids a break here. Who hasn’t done bone stupid things when drunk at that age? And as we have no idea what was done to her you could be overreacting to what was actually done, I get the feeling that the judge (who has all the evidence, NOT us) had a good reason for putting a gag order on this gal. Talk about a lynch mob mentality, all these white knights that want to rush out and off some kids is just appalling, especially as no one here has any idea what happened.
I am disappointed by the large contingent of Freepers who are defending the willful and uncivilized behavior of the segment of society that is responsible for civilizing young men. No wonder we are in such trouble.
When we still had satellite TV I used to watch Judge Judy, and while I didn’t always agree with her, I especially enjoyed it when she got little girls like this foolish one in front of her.
The girls were SO confident, especially the drinkers. They thought being intoxicated excused their bad behavior. They bleached their boyfriends clothes after an argument, they went to parties and started fights, they smashed up someone else’s car, they pulled other others hair, they even slammed the boyfriends car into Park at 60 mph.
They got drunk, passed out, and then blamed others for what happened to them.
Jude Judy played with them for as long as it was entertaining, then she put the screws to them.
Seldom did they win their cases, and in one situation where there were three girls on one side, she singled out the one most likely to tell the real truth, put her on the stand right next to her (IIRC) got the truth out that they had all been drinking, sent her back to here two friends and dismissed the case. That all happed so quickly one of the others said ‘what the hell just happened?’ as they were sent out so the next case could be tried.
You’ all can see this in anyway you want, but my thinking has been markedly influenced by Judge Judy, the LaCross Case, countless stories posted here on FR about the false cries of rape, and common sense.
You want to play in the freeway, you’re gonna’ get hurt.
This foolish woman put herself in a similar situation, went to a ‘wild’ party willingly, drank willingly, willingly stayed in the company of other drunks, including young men who were also not in control of themselves because of alcohol and/or other drugs got passed out drunk. Now she want to blame others for being a fool.
What’s worse, so do many Freepers, including presumably, a Scoutleader, who of ALL freepers should know the meaning in individual responsibility.
Sad story.