[thecodont]

It seems that some psychologists or counselors virtually specialize in trying to convince guys that their slutty gf, wife, fiancee, etc, is just an "empowered sexual being" and all of that BS. I saw it as just a bunch of shaming tactics to get a guy to feel guilty and marry a slutty woman. No thanks.

Flip side of that:

A man with extensive premarital sexual experience will try to convince his (inexperienced) wife that his past will make him a better lover and husband, and she should feel grateful that he will "teach" her.

[SIDENET]

Flip side of that: A man with extensive premarital sexual experience will try to convince his (inexperienced) wife that his past will make him a better lover and husband, and she should feel grateful that he will "teach" her.

If a woman isn't cool with that, she should send the guy packing.

BTW, in my case, my ex gf went ballistic and told every gal she knew. A bunch of harpies descended on me to try and shame me into taking her back. I live in a lefty area, and those gals were PISSED. Even my Mom (who is a big Lib) took up for my ex-gf and tried to shame me into taking her back.

I told them all the same thing: I didn't care that my ex-gf was "empowered". She could just go be "empowered" somewhere else.