One of my brothers married a woman from Boston...she was a died in the wool Kennedy Democrat. The Clintons were her idea of a perfect President and First Lady. We welcomed this woman with open arms because she was a great person, misguided but great. My brother spent years explaining and proving to her what was really going on in the world...now she is a Republican and her family is stunned.
Don’t fight with misguided family members, drip the truth on them like water torture and have patience.
If she died in the wool, then you should have buried her.
Love that.