OK I won’t even try and dispute this point though my personal experiences and people I know (clearly a tiny, insignificant subset) have had different experiences. I was really referring to the fact that this has nothing to do with killing a whole lot of innocent children, whatever our personal experience.
Okay, and I’ll accept your viewpoint on the matter too.
As you others have said, nothing under the sun justifies anything along the lines of what this shooter did.
I appreciate your response.