I don’t know if it is responsibility, but I think that people have become selfish and not caring.
Why not have some activities that take everyone and are not competitive? She would love to do theater, singing, softball, basketball but she sucks at it. She just wants to participate and have fun, but once you get into high school the groups are all competitive.
It’s just difficult. No real answers.
As for compassion:
When has a socialist, compulsory, godless, and single payer entitlement ever been compassionate?