I guess it depends where you are. I go to a mega chiurch in richmond mosttly black and even though there are a lot lesswhites in the church at times i would say there have been more white men with black women than the other way around. But. I agree percentage wise a lot more black men go for interracial dating than white men. Historically imo white.men have had sex with black women but only wanted to marry white women.
I have been to Richmond VA a few times and have friends there and they live in a mixed race area, though more blacks are moving in to his area and he said the same after I read your post and called him.
Black women do not have the attraction as white women to black men.
H eknows plenty of black men who would rather have a white women and not one white guy either who wants a black woman.
Seems your little crner of America, i.e. your church is different to the country