What you say is the honest truth.
The military, such as it is, is not conservative anymore. If we had to go a round with China, or any modern power, we couldn’t.
The men and women serving now are coming home broken, and no one cares.
Women will break the military and the VA system, already the VA is becoming female oriented, although women are still new to the military and only a tiny percentage of it.
The VA is becoming a creepy place anyway, I think that most veteran freepers who use the VA have learned to be very guarded and alert when dealing with them.