I think you are being oversensitive and somewhat obnoxious with your holier-than-thou attitude.
I made jokes about my own near demise while I was still unable to sit up by myself in the trauma care center. Hell, I still talk about missing my left kidney, but my spleen and I never really talked anyway...
Get over yourself.
/johnny
You don’t feel anything for this man’s family, and you have not “been there, done that”.
Why not open up a big bottle of STFU, and take a long gulp?
(Do I still sound “holier than thou” to you?)
I did agree with you that your kids would probably be right in just ignoring your demise, should you suddenly die.
Jeff Bush has an extended family and a large local community that does care about him, during this horrible situation.
Maybe you should work on expanding your sensitivity.
Or at the very least, refraining from trash talk about innocent victims of sudden lethal situations.