Why is it stupid?
You either think males and females have a fundamental wiring difference or you don’t. It comes back to the nature versus nurture argument.
There is no doubt that it is not ALL nature or ALL nurture. But there is no doubt about it at either end of the spectrum.
Just as people like me are inclined to think nature will largely take its course if un-interfered with by the nurture crowd, I also do not discount the effect that the meddling that our society has undertaken to feminize males has had in the last 40 years.
But I also recognize that some men still become men despite that infernal meddling.
my boys are raised and I just “let” them play with whatever toys they were around and yes, our best friends were girls. If you act like playing with easy bake will turn him gay, you don’t get it. Guess what, the best chefs are male, so are the best chess players.