While I wouldn’t do either of those things, I don’t think they are right or wrong. It’s just behavior that may or may not be accepted by others or by whatever society they happen to be a part of.
Everyone has things they believe are wrong, and things they believe are right. That’s just how God made us.
IF you accept that God made us, then you also are obliged to heed His word.
Everyone does have things they think are right or wrong, THIS INCLUDES GOD, our Creator. He has been very forthcoming with what HE says is RIGHT and what HE says is wrong. Believing His word, makes it all very simple.
While you may not DO either of those things, accepting them as potentially ‘valid’ behaviors puts you in the group of enablers.