[ex-snook]

"We have 6 children 3 boys and 3 girls."

Thanks. You add the missing ingredient. There has been a lot of good points made on why marriage breaks up. You have made the point of what keeps marriage intact forever.

Children with a stay at home mom and an involved dad is hard to beat.

[fatima]

Thanks,what I can’t figure out is why the my daughter’s 30 something friends are afraid to be mother’s.They have told me this.