You have to stop.
Men these days are in it just for the sex, they run when it comes to actually caring for the kids or going to parent teacher meetings or doing anything other than stroking their childish egos
it is actually a scam and the mothers are in on it.
Figure out why the baby daddy has all the link cards in his pocket.
Women these days are in it just for the money. They have our whole society telling them how bad men are and how really bad boys are. Women think they are entitled - just because they are women. The family law courts back them up. In the vast majority of cases, child custody and support gets awarded to women.
Plenty of men coach baseball for their kids, go on Scout trips (like I did), go to t-ball, many, many other things.
So stop the misandry already.