You are defined by the company you keep.”
When I was growing up my daddy always told me that you are not judged by who you are but who people think you are and this is based on their first impression of how you are dressed, how you behave in public and when you think no one is watching, how you speak and who you spend time with. Raised my children with the same advice and they have passed it onto their children.
My parents always had what they called “door check” before I could leave the house. Used to refer it as “the inquisition”, particularly when I was a teen. Included check of my attire and questions of where I was going, with whom, who would be there and when could they expect me to return. Did the same thing with my kids. Everyone turned out well.
More door checks are needed!