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Did gay NJ server concoct denied tip story?
http://www.philly.com/philly/news/new_jersey/Family_Gay_server_in_NJ_concocted_denied_tip_story.html#yaAXX2b7T4WkB4W2.99 ^ | Tuesday, November 26, 2013 | Staff

Posted on 11/26/2013 12:06:48 PM PST by Phillyred

A television news report sheds doubt on a gay New Jersey restaurant server’s claim that a customer denied her a tip because of her ‘lifestyle’ by producing a receipt that indicates otherwise.

NBC 4 out of New York reports that it has an original receipt and credit card statement produced by family members who ate at the restaurant that night and insist they did leave a tip and did not scrawl on their receipt: “I’m sorry but I cannot tip because I do not agree with your lifestyle.”

The story gained national attention after Dayna Morales, a former Marine and employee at Gallop Asian Bistro in Bridgewater, Somerset County, N.J., sent an image of a receipt with the writing to the organization Have A Gay Day, which posted it on the group's Facebook page.

"Tips" then poured in from across the country, and Morales told CNN that she received more than $2,000.

MORE COVERAGE Andrews calls for independent oversight of railroads One woman's personal annual food drive But NBC 4 said it contacted a family who said the server showed, what appeared to be in their eyes, an altered copy of their original receipt. The family members said they are not anti-gay, and, in fact, voted against Chris Christie for his stand on same-sex marriage.

The husband and wife, who asked to remain anonymous, have a receipt printed at the same minute, on the same date, for the same $93.55 total - but with an $18 tip. The couple also produced a Visa bill confirming they were charged a total of $111.55 by the restaurant and believe their original receipt was doctored.

Said the wife: “We would never leave a note like that."

The woman told the television station the check had been "doctored up" and the couple was tolerant.

"I think there's enough hate and intolerance in the world that to create it when it wasn't there is shameful and dishonorable," she said.

Morales, however, is sticking to her story.

The server told NBC 4 that she didn't forge the hateful note.

"That's not my handwriting," she said. "I don't know."

Morales has said she was stunned by the incident.

In her message to Have A Gay Day, which the organization posted on Facebook, Morales said: "NEVER in a million years did I think this would happen."

The restaurant says it is looking into the incident.

Shortly after the image of the receipt surfaced, general manager Byron Lapola wrote a message of support for Morales on Gallop Asian Bistro's Facebook page, according to news reports.

That post was no longer visible on the page this morning.


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To: Phillyred
This all brings me back to my origianl question when the story broke.

How did this couple KNOW this woman was a lesbian? Did she tell them? Did Ms. Morales assume they would make that determination from her looks? What? What?
What was it that tipped off the couple who allegedly did this?

21 posted on 11/26/2013 12:31:01 PM PST by Bloody Sam Roberts ("It does not take a majority to prevail, but rather an irate, tireless minority...")
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To: Phillyred
Did gay NJ server concoct denied tip story?

Without even bothering to read a word of the story, I'll guess "Yes.".

22 posted on 11/26/2013 12:31:11 PM PST by wbill
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To: Phillyred

hasn’t the answer been obvious from the beginning?


23 posted on 11/26/2013 12:31:54 PM PST by GeronL (Extra Large Cheesy Over-Stuffed Hobbit)
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To: forgotten man

Its a trend, people lie on job resumes, lie about graduating college, lie about military service, lie about so called hate crimes. People have no shame, no values, no morals. And by the way they seem to let their kids scream and cry and stand up and destroy my quiet meals at every restaurant I visit these days. When I was a kid 1950-60s what other people thought about us was very important to the family.


24 posted on 11/26/2013 12:38:05 PM PST by pwatson
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To: Phillyred

There is a post from this freak on a facebook page dedicated to this incident. The first post is from the freak and I will let her words speak for themselves:

Dayna Morales Thanks everyone for your support - it took very fiber of my being not to spit in their food and say something. (Not gonna lie if kids weren’t there it would of been a totally different story)

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=453425841430201&set=a.192270474212407.34793.192269477545840&type=1

I think she printed a duplicate receipt, ran the tip through, tossed the original copy and then doctored the duplicate. That is why the tip matched the couple’s receipt and their statement and why the merchant copy is blank. She needs to go to jail, be stripped of any military title and benefits and sued into oblivion.


25 posted on 11/26/2013 12:39:18 PM PST by Cowgirl of Justice
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To: Cowgirl of Justice

Furthermore, I will bet the couple’s fingerprints are not on the faked hoax receipt.


26 posted on 11/26/2013 12:41:39 PM PST by Cowgirl of Justice
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To: Phillyred
Several possibilities: 1. The receipt was doctored by the server. 2. There were two bills that night from couples with similar or identical names for exactly the same amount. 3. The note was put on the copy of the bill the family first received but they went ahead and tipped anyway. 4. The original copy of the bill that gets delivered to the table fell on the floor or was otherwise retrieved by some else who put the note on it and then left it on the table. With regards to the last two possibilities, I’ve sometimes walked away from restaurants with several copies of the bill. What originally gets delivered to the table looks the same as the final completed bill except the tip and final amount aren’t shown. This often happens when you add the tip and get the final bill out of the credit card machine as opposed to those times when it gets filled in strictly by hand.

Incidentally, if a server ever made any pronouncements to me that had any sexual connotations to them that had to do with his/her lifestyle, you could be sure that the individual would get no tip…. and I definitely would tell the manager that I wouldn’t be back.

27 posted on 11/26/2013 12:45:50 PM PST by hecticskeptic
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To: hecticskeptic

So how would you address the exact time/date stamp as the one the couple produced? The couple said they recognized it as theirs.


28 posted on 11/26/2013 12:47:56 PM PST by Cowgirl of Justice
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To: Cowgirl of Justice

Your post brings something to mind - the perp wanted the tip AND the grievance.

If she was smart, she’d not have run the tip through on the credit card.

The credit card company recorded the full amount, giving evidence against her claim.


29 posted on 11/26/2013 12:48:55 PM PST by MrB (The difference between a Humanist and a Satanist - the latter admits whom he's working for)
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To: pwatson

I work with a 32 year old guy who lies habitually. He came of age during the Clinton years. In their world it is OK to lie because they think they are getting away with it. It really pisses me off because I know he is lying and he thinks I am dumb enough to believe his obvious B.S.


30 posted on 11/26/2013 12:53:05 PM PST by forgotten man
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To: Cowgirl of Justice

Spit in their food? What an awful thing to say. Even if her accusations are true, (and it really looks like they aren’t,) I have zero sympathy for her. What’s more, she ought to be fired for even suggesting that she might spit in someone’s food. Who’s going to want to eat at that restaurant now? I’d be worried that I’d get her for my server and she wouldn’t like my looks or something and would spit in my food.


31 posted on 11/26/2013 12:54:00 PM PST by Nea Wood (When life gets too hard to stand, kneel.)
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To: Cowgirl of Justice

If the tip was included on the couple’s credit card statement, it’s clear the lezbo’s receipt was a fake.


32 posted on 11/26/2013 12:56:07 PM PST by jimbo123
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To: MrB

Left-handed-right handed. Did you remember how Sidney Potier discovered the murder suspect was innocent? Used a brokeback trick-very smart.


33 posted on 11/26/2013 12:56:09 PM PST by DIRTYSECRET (urope. Why do they put up with this.)
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To: Phillyred
How could this be? Gay people are the most honest, the most civil, the most loving beings on the planet! Must be heterosexual propaganda. (sarcasm)
34 posted on 11/26/2013 12:57:17 PM PST by Farnsworth (Now playing in America: "Stupid is the new normal")
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To: Nea Wood

Spit in their food? She had the nads to post that online?

Lesbo just lost her job, because any restaurant (that MIGHT BE HELD LIABLE!!!) would be crazy to even let her in the door now!


35 posted on 11/26/2013 12:58:38 PM PST by djf (Global warming is turning out to be a bunch of hot air!!)
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To: NCC-1701

“How would the customers ever know that piece of info?”

Have you seen “her” picture? If you had, it would erase all doubts in your mind about her sexual orientation. Extremely butch!


36 posted on 11/26/2013 12:59:02 PM PST by Dr. Bogus Pachysandra ( Ya can't pick up a turd by the clean end!)
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To: Cowgirl of Justice

Spit in their food? Isn’t the tip left after the meal is complete?
The surprising thing about this story is that a New York NBC affiliate would report anything that runs counter to the gay agenda. Some jobs may be in jeopardy there.


37 posted on 11/26/2013 1:02:08 PM PST by Rainier1789 (My Constitution has a 2nd and 10th Amendment)
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To: Phillyred

either the waitress did it, or the fellow employee, perhaps manager who brought it to her attention did.


38 posted on 11/26/2013 1:02:52 PM PST by Usagi_yo
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To: Nea Wood

Spit in their food?
+++++++
The reason I do not eat out....


39 posted on 11/26/2013 1:06:41 PM PST by S.O.S121.500 (Case back hoe for sale or trade for diesel wood chipper....Enforce the Bill of Rights. It's the Law!)
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To: Cowgirl of Justice

Since the bill was paid, and the purported offensive note written, after the people had eaten, it would have been pointless to spit in their empty plates. One more indication of this being a fraud.


40 posted on 11/26/2013 1:19:36 PM PST by Bob
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