I had a friend try that (with a lady in Thailand). Guess what? They have hyper-expensive shopping malls with credit cards in Thailand, too
And the answer is to not marry, not give her access to your finances, and when they express a desire to exceed your budget, say “No. Don’t like it? Door’s over there.”
yep . also too many demands ,lies and or manipulations then get rid of them fast
There are a lot of women (not limited to any culture or ethnicity) who will probe the limits of what they can get away with in a relationship. If they encounter a guy who seems to have no limits, then they think they've hit the jackpot.
A woman who appears to be specifically looking for a no-limits sucker to exploit, is somebody to quickly walk away from, no matter how cute she is.
The one in control of the relationship, is the one who is willing to end it if the relationship does not meet the person's needs.